Pronouns in Japanese
Japanese has words for "I", "you", "he" and "she", but you'll hear them far less than in English: most of the time the subject is simply left out. "I" itself comes in several forms: 私 (watashi) is neutral and polite, 僕 (boku) is a casual word mostly used by men and boys, and 俺 (ore) is a rougher one men use with friends. Politeness comes mostly from the end of the sentence rather than from the word for "you": です (desu) and ます (masu) in polite speech, the plain form with friends. Each line in this lesson is marked with its style.
The eight pronouns — useful to know, often left out
The pronoun chart: the ways to say "I", and plurals with たち (tachi) or ら (ra)
Starting a sentence with pronoun + は (wa): 彼女は (kanojo wa), "she"
彼女はパリに住んでいます。
- formal
私はこの近くに住んでいます。
- formal
彼は銀行で働いています。
- formal
彼はとても背が高いです。
- formal
彼女はパリに住んでいます。
- formal
彼女は三か国語を話せます。
- formal
それはちょっと高すぎますね。
- formal
私たちは同じマンションに住んでいます。
- formal
彼らは上の階に住んでいます。
No subject needed — and no empty "it"
Japanese leaves the subject out whenever the situation makes it clear, much more often than English does: 疲れた (tsukareta) is "I'm tired", and 近所の人たちです (kinjo no hito-tachi desu) is "They're my neighbours". The verb doesn't change for "I", "you" or "they", so the context does all the work. There's no empty "it" either: 雨が降っています (ame ga futte imasu), "It's raining", is literally "rain is falling". For a thing, Japanese can use それ (sore), "that": それはちょっと高すぎますね (sore wa chotto takasugimasu ne), "It's too expensive", but just as often it says nothing: テーブルの上にありますよ (tēburu no ue ni arimasu yo), "It's on the table".
彼 (kare) and 彼女 (kanojo) are used much less than "he" and "she", and they also mean "boyfriend" and "girlfriend": あの子、レオの彼女? (ano ko, Reo no kanojo?) means "Is she Leo's girlfriend?". To point someone out, say あの人 (ano hito), "that person": あの人は誰? (ano hito wa dare?), "Who's that?"
- informal
疲れた。
- formal
すみません、よく分かりません。
- informal
話すの、すごく速いね。
- formal
雨が降っています。
- formal
テーブルの上にありますよ。
- informal
やばい、遅刻だ!
- formal
近所の人たちです。
Saying "you" without あなた
あなた (anata) is the word for "you" in textbooks, but people rarely say it, and to someone whose name you know it can sound distant or even rude. As in the introductions lesson, use the person's name with さん (san): すみません、田中さんですか? (sumimasen, Tanaka-san desu ka?) is "Excuse me, are you Mr. Tanaka?". Even more often, there's no "you" at all: 大丈夫? (daijōbu?) is simply "Are you okay?"
Most of the politeness is in the verb ending, not in a word for "you". To a stranger or a customer you use です (desu) and ます (masu), as in 何かお手伝いしましょうか? (nanika o-tetsudai shimashō ka?); to a friend you use the plain form: ちょっと手伝ってくれる? (chotto tetsudatte kureru?).
- formal
すみません、田中さんですか?
- formal
何かお手伝いしましょうか?
- informal
ねえ、もしかしてアナのお兄さん?
- informal
大丈夫?
- informal
ちょっと手伝ってくれる?
Talking to a group: みんな and 二人とも
あなたたち (anata-tachi) is the plural "you", but it's as rare as あなた. Where English says "you all" or "you guys", Japanese says みんな (minna), "everyone": みんな、準備できた? (minna, junbi dekita?) is "Are you all ready?". To two people, say 二人とも (futari tomo), "both of you": 二人とも、コーヒー飲む? (futari tomo, kōhī nomu?)
- informal
みんな、準備できた?
- informal
二人とも、コーヒー飲む?
Meeting a new neighbour: polite です and ます, and そちらは instead of "you"
- Aformal
すみません、こちらにお住まいですか?
- Bformal
ええ、三階です。そちらは?
- Aformal
夫と二人で引っ越してきたばかりです。
- Bformal
そうですか、よろしくお願いします。お子さんはいらっしゃいますか?
- Aformal
はい、男の子です。五歳です。
- Bformal
うちの孫も五歳なんですよ。一緒に遊べますね!
At a party: あの人 and あの子 instead of "he" and "she"
- Ainformal
ねえ、あの二人、知ってる?
- Binformal
うん、一緒に働いてるんだ。
- Ainformal
で、あの人は誰?
- Binformal
レオだよ。すごく面白いんだ。
- Ainformal
あの子、レオの彼女?
- Binformal
ううん、妹だよ!ほら、紹介するよ。